I’ll give you an example:

I’ve always hated my voice; I have a little girl voice and it’s too slow! In fact, a lot of things about me are slow! I’ve been told I’m a slow blinker, who knew that was a thing! And I take my time with everything!  Quite frankly I disliked these things about me.  So, I decided to meditate and seek guidance on why did I have to have these traits!

I discovered that these quirks were by perfect design, my slow voice is designed to bring a sense of calmness to others. And my little girl voice to bring out a sense of playfulness and lightness in others!  Realising my quirks can positively impact others was quite a pleasant revelation. So what you perceive as you’re negative traits, are likely to have meaning and purpose too.

Now I understand that you may have faced many challenges in life and let’s be honest life can really throw curveballs our way.  Imagine the universe as a magical mirror. Its purpose is to reflect and mirror back to you, your deepest feelings about yourself, both the positive, the negative and the hidden ones.

It achieves this by orchestrating certain life experiences, that are tailored for you. Its mission is to gently awaken you, to your true potential.

Let me assure you, the universe is not out to harm you.  

**It’s important to recognise that there are systems of oppression, injustice and abuse which are beyond your control. If you have experienced any of these, please know you did not attract to be punished and harmed from these situations.  You deserve to feel safe, free, loved, and respected. Worthiness is your birth right.